FAMILY IN QUESTION

We live in democratic world ,but our family system is not democratic.We don't allow our girl child to pursue her education,selection of subject ,career , person whom she wishes to marry, dress she like to wear etc.List is endless. So is the suffering for women is also endless.I remember in kolkata a marwari girl has to commit suicide because she wanted to study Bengali in her graduationas a subjectbut her parents didn't allowed her.But who care? Girl is asked to get educated upto the level where she can fetch a good groom for herself.Simon ,the french feminist said it correctly that A MAN IS GROOMEN TO GET A JOB & A WOMAN IS GROOMED TO GET A HUSBAND. The status of a man in the society is equal to the post he hold ,so is the status of a woman in the society is the man who she hold i.e. husband.Very early during my school time we read an eassy telling that woman is zero unitry which get its value when it get attached to a number i.e. a man.Although it is not totally true in respect of the current situation of women in India but by and large pic is that women are forced to give up her ambitious career in order to look after her children,marriage.Or if not she has to play a very hectic role in the family of a super woman.Even the parents of the girl teaches her daughter to be submissive ,obidient and son to be in commanding position.Disparity starts from the begining only.